Lets see, we have rising fuel prices which are sending out shockwaves throughout the rest of the global economy. There
have floods of biblical proportions in the Midwest and record foreclosures brought about by the predatory behavior of
the lending industry. And talented yet troubled British R&B singer Amy Winehouse has somehow given herself emphysema at
the ripe old age of 24. These are all forms of stress, right?
Well, actually no. To be precise the news stories
listed above are actually stressors, not stress. What is the difference?
A stressor is a stimulus that has the
potential to create a stress reaction in a person or group of people. However, two people can encounter the same form of adversity
and have totally different responses to it. And therein lies a very important thing to remember when it comes to managing
your stress levels, you do have some degree of choice in the matter.
How about we create a hypothetical example
to explore this idea. Your next door neighbor Greg sees rising fuel prices as proof of a dark global conspiracy that will
ruin our way of life and his in particular. As you might expect he seethes with anger at the very thought of this perceived
injustice and he has not been sleeping well as of late. His stomach has been giving him considerable grief too. Further fueling
his stress, he is a loyal listener of a talk radio station that encourages listeners like him to call in and vent their opinions
on matters like this.
Your other neighbor Mary is not thrilled with paying more during her weekly trip
to the gas station either. However, the way she looks at it, this situation may be a blessing in disguise since it will encourage
more people to seek out more fuel efficient alternatives and to practice conservation. That and she figures we are all in
it together and things will probably work out OK.
Greg and Mary are being charged the same price at the pump,
yet Greg is paying a far higher price when you think about it. His mental and physical stress are creating discomfort in the
short term and if left unchecked, some potentially serious health problems in the long term. All because of a difference
in perception.
Abraham Lincoln was quoted as saying that “we are only as happy as we make up
our minds to be.” Its not a matter of Mary being right and Greg being wrong since both viewpoints
could be argued successfully. However, it makes little sense to hold onto perceptions that create stress while doing nothing
to correct the stressor.
With all these stressors flying around, someone might be tempted to tell us to “take
a deep breath.” And as a matter of the fact that person is probably me! We’ve all heard how proper breathing can
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This may hurt a little: Hypnotised patient has two teeth removed
without anaesthetic
By Andrew Levy as reported in the Daily Mail. Last updated at 9:49 AM on 04th June 2008
After avoiding the dentist for the best part of a decade, Leslie Mason was in pain and knew he needed urgent treatment.
Two rotten teeth and four roots had to be removed but he could not afford to pay £400 for the work and was also dreading
the discomfort he would have to endure.
He mentioned the dilemma to his friend John Ridlington, a qualified hypnotist,
who revealed he had been discussing the potential of hypnosis to a dentist he knew.
After avoiding the dentist
for the best part of a decade, Leslie Mason was in pain and knew he needed urgent treatment. Two rotten teeth and four roots
had to be removed but he could not afford to pay £400 for the work and was also dreading the discomfort he would have
to endure.
He mentioned the dilemma to his friend John Ridlington, a qualified hypnotist, who revealed he had
been discussing the potential of hypnosis to a dentist he knew. A quick check confirmed Mr Mason could act as a guinea pig
to test the theory and have the treatment free.
He underwent a two-hour procedure without anaesthetic, remaining
conscious but in a trance-like state, and reported feeling nothing more than a 'little sting'. He is believed to be
the first person in the country to have major dental surgery using hypnosis instead of anaesthetic.
'It was
incredible,' said Mr Mason, 54, a DIY store worker from Colchester, Essex. 'There is no worse pain than that inflicted
by dentists but I didn't feel any. The dentist had to dig away at the rotten roots that were right up into my jaw. 'There
isn't anything I wouldn't have done under hypnosis now.'
Mr Mason, a father of seven, had previously
used hypnosis to quit a 40-a-day smoking habit. He added: 'Not everyone is as susceptible as me to hypnosis but it's
an area that should be exploited further. There are so many benefits.'
Mr Mason's last visit to
a dentist before the recent check-up had been in 1998. During the operation on May 20 he had two upper right molars removed
along with their roots, plus two roots from teeth which had been pulled in the 1980s.
Mr Ridlington spent 45
minutes getting him into a relaxed state of mind beforehand by making him visualise his favourite subject - historic
battle reenactments - to distract his mind from the pain. Mr Mason also had to imagine a dial numbered one to
ten, one representing no pain and ten pure agony. Whenever he felt a twinge, he mentally turned the dial back to one.
Mr Ridlington, 59, from Dunmow, Essex, said: 'We all have the ability to control pain with our brains. 'They control
everything about our bodies and our subconscious is the most powerful part - it controls our breathing and the
blood pumping through our veins. 'Hypnosis taps into the subconscious mind. It's all about mind over matter.'
The operation was performed by Dr Bhavin Bhatt, who runs the Smile and Wellbeing dental practice in Bishop's
Stortford, Hertfordshire. He said: 'The hypnosis was 100 per cent effective. We're now exploring the possibility of
offering tooth transplants under hypnosis.
Studies have shown that using hypnosis instead of anaesthetic can reduce
recovery time after surgery. It also removes the chance of possible side-effects from anaesthesia. But the technique's
long association with stage acts has kept it at the margins of mainstream medicine.
Hypnoanaesthesia, where the
patient enters a deep trance state and is told he will feel no pain, has been used to help burn victims manage their agony
and ease fears over surgery and childbirth.
The British Society of Medical and Dental Hypnosis said that even
heart operations had been carried out under hypnosis. In April, hypnotherapist Alex Lenkei had an 83-minute operation without
anaesthetic on his arm to treat osteoarthritis.
Afterwards, he revealed he had been aware of his surgeon making
a four-inch incision into his wrist and chiselling the bone to remove a tendon. He added: 'I heard everything he was saying
to his assistants and anaesthetist but there was no gossip. It was a shame - I was hoping to hear something juicy.'